How to Make Time for What Matters Most
Time is one of our most precious resources, yet it often feels like there’s never enough of it. Between work, family, and personal responsibilities, the days can slip by in a blur, leaving little room for the things that truly matter. But what if you could take a closer look at how you spend your time and realign it with your values?
For me, this realization hit during the pandemic. Like many people, I started getting my groceries delivered. It was a way to minimize exposure and save time, and at first, I thought I’d go back to shopping in person when things settled down. But even as life returned to a new normal, I kept the delivery service because I realized something important: I wasn’t just saving time—I was reclaiming it.
Instead of spending an hour (or more) driving to the store, walking up and down the aisles, and standing in checkout lines, I could use that time in ways that felt more meaningful to me. Whether it was working on my business, playing Roblox with my son, or enjoying a quiet moment with a cup of tea, the shift helped me focus on what really matters in my life.
This small change reminded me that time management isn’t just about being efficient—it’s about being intentional. It’s about asking, What do I value most? and then making choices that reflect those values.
3 Steps to Align Your Time with Your Values
1. Identify What Truly Matters
Take a moment to think about what’s most important to you. Is it spending quality time with loved ones? Pursuing a creative passion? Growing your business? Write down your top three priorities so you have a clear picture of what you’re working toward.
2. Reevaluate Your Daily Tasks
Not everything on your to-do list deserves your time and energy. Take a close look at your daily and weekly routines. Are there tasks you can outsource, simplify, or even eliminate altogether? For example, as a business owner, I like to think about how much my time is worth per hour. If there’s something I have to do (but don’t want to) that costs less to outsource than what I charge for my own time, I’ll pay someone else to do it.
This mindset has been a game-changer for me, whether it’s hiring someone to clean the house, manage a small admin task, or handle a to-do list item that doesn’t require my personal attention. It’s not just about efficiency—it’s about recognizing the value of your time and energy and using them wisely.
3. Protect Your Time with Boundaries
Once you’ve reclaimed your time, protect it. Set boundaries with others (and yourself!) to ensure you’re using your time for the things that matter most. Remember, it’s okay to say no to things that don’t align with your priorities.
Time Is an Investment in What You Value
Making time for what matters most isn’t always about doing less—it’s about doing what’s meaningful. When you align your time with your values, you create space for the things that bring you joy, fulfillment, and purpose. For me, a slight shift like grocery delivery turned into a big lesson about how I want to live and work: with more intention, less stress, and a focus on what truly matters.
If you’re looking for more ways to prioritize your time and align your actions with your values, check out my Slow-Living Goal-Setting System. It’s designed to help you take intentional steps toward a life and business that genuinely reflect what matters most to you.
What small change could you make today to reclaim your time? Share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear what’s working for you!
